The Best ORAL SEX Ever
Her Guide to
Going Down
Yvonne K. Fulbright, PhD
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The best oral sex ever: her guide to going down / Yvonne K. Fulbright.
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INTRODUCTION
Open Up and Say Ahhhh
If you've cracked open this book, your curiosity has been piqued. Oral sex has a way of doing that, beckoning lovers to come get a taste. Those who have been there know it's the means to better, more fulfilling orgasms. Those who haven't gone down under or those who have been disappointed by earlier experiences at least know its reputation for inviting sexual release in a way that nothing else can. There's no doubt that going down on your partner has taken center stage in the quest for sexual fulfillment. It seems like everyone wants more than a mouthful, and who can blame them?
Becoming an oral connoisseur is where it's at when it comes to reaching new, jaw-dropping sexual heights. However, while your aim is to give him the best head ever, this book is very much about how to make the experience of giver the best for you too. After all, a pleasure shared is a pleasure doubled, and your ability to not only deliver the most effective techniques around, but love what you're doing, while you're doing it, is critical to both your and your partner's erotic experience.
The Best Oral Sex Ever: Her Guide to Going Down is intended for lovers looking for erotic ideas, couples hoping to deal with their oral sex issues, and women seeking to make oral sex more palpable or more of a priority in their passion pursuits. It will answer all of those questions that you're too afraid or too embarrassed to ask. As with any sex act, oral sex mastery comes with time, dedication, practice, and desire and, as a sex educator and relationship expert, I know well the trials and tribulations that lovers grapple with when it comes to fellatio. Fortunately, this book will send you well on your way, offering oral sex tips and techniques, and strategies to help you overcome any barriers, as well as:
A whole new level of sexpertise.
Realistic erotic expectations.
How to communicate your needs, concerns, and questions to your partner.
The information and skills needed to take care of both your and your partner's sexual health while doing what you'll learn to do best.
Tons of instruction on how to eroticize oral sex and how to get both you and your partner off.
Information on his potential for multiple orgasms.
Referrals you can turn to for more information.
I can't say it enough going down on your guy can offer some of the greatest pleasures and most intimate moments that you'll ever experience. The confidence and power trip that comes with knowing that you're an expert at giving head is an ego boost like no other. By the end of this book, you'll be on top of your game, feeling great about your ability to help him feel more than a little sexually satisfied.
As you read through the following pages, it's important to remember that sexual preferences are as numerous as there are people. How to make oral sex an art form for your sexual partner needs to be explored and you'll need to specially tailor your skills to his wants and likes. Some things may work after one or many tries; others may not. Some techniques may work at another stage in your relationship or with a totally different guy. If you're in your current relationship for the long-haul, you'll want to come back to this book more than once to keep your oral intimacy original and red hot. After all, we all evolve as lovers in our pleasures, reactions, and abilities.
But, no matter your experience, this book will help you to see oral sex in a whole new, healthy, exciting light. Trust me, you'll soon be delivering like an oral sex pro.
CHAPTER 1
Our Intrigue with Oral Sex
Lip service, going down, sucking cock, giving a hummer, meeting with the one-eyed purple monster. The slang terms for oral sex are very creative, often quite comical, and, at the very least, many. Google oral sex and 17.4 million hits come up for that term alone. People around the world are intrigued with the eroticism involved in giving the genitals a slip of the tongue and more. To say we're orally fixated is an understatement.
Just So We're on the Same Page
Performing oral sex is a universal sexual experience enjoyed by millions as a part of foreplay, as a part of afterplay (that lovely, intimate, coming down period following sexual intercourse), or as the main sex event. In those racy trysts involving more than two sexual partners, it can even be experienced during sexual intercourse. In any case, oralgenital contact, more commonly known as
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