JAIYA - Blow Each Other Away: A Couples’ Guide to Sensational Oral Sex

Names in the book have been changed and some personal stories combined in order to protect confidentiality I have with my students.

Copyright 2013 by Jessica Kinzbach

All rights reserved.
Published in the United States by Harmony Books, an imprint of the Crown Publishing Group, a division of Random House, Inc., New York.
www.crownpublishing.com

Harmony Books is a registered trademark, and the Circle colophon is a trademark of Random House, Inc.

Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Jaiya.
Blow each other away : a couples guide to sensational oral sex /
Jaiya.1st ed.
p. cm.
1. Oral sex. 2. Orgasm. 3. Sex instruction. 4. Sexual excitement. I. Title.
HQ31.5.O73J35 2012
306.774dc23 2012010841

ISBN 9780-770435547
eISBN 9780-770435554

TEXT ILLUSTRATIONS BY STASIA BURRINGTON
COVER DESIGN BY JIM MASSEY
COVER PHOTOGRAPH: (FEMALE) KASIAM/ISTOCK PHOTOS; (MALE) VLADIMIR
WRANGEL/ISTOCK PHOTOS; (TOWEL) MILAN LLC/ISTOCK PHOTOS

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To Jim Perry, rest in peace, dear sweet soul; to my sweet loves Ian and Jon;
and to all my teachers who have supported me through the years.

J anet and Bill were living in the conservative Midwest, and neither of them had much education about sex. Their parents never talked about sex, and they had very little hands-on experience when they came to see me just three years into their marriage. Bill had been diagnosed with prostate cancer a year earlier, and after surgery he found that he was impotent. They loved each other but were very frustrated with their sex lives. Neither Janet nor Bill was having orgasms, and secretly Janet was thinking of having an affair. They had no idea that sex could be more than just a penis in a vagina. Theyd never really thought about sensual massage or oral lovemaking as a way to stay intimately connected. I thought they were both going to die when I mentioned strap-ons as an alternative. I had to go slow with them on that idea.

Once Janet overcame her shame around receiving oral pleasure, she had some of the best orgasms in her life. Bill was happy to feel like a good lover again. Plus he received the benefits of Janet learning to enjoy returning the favor. The smiles and blushes on their faces told me they were having a fantastic time kissing, touching, and playing with mouths on genitals. Bill started to get his erectile function back (maybe because he finally learned how to relax about the whole deal). Janet swore I saved their marriage.

I wrote this book for my many students like Janet and Bill, but also for my students who just plain want to improve their already scintillating sex life. For example, David and Meg had both love and passion when they came to see me. It was a treat to watch them gush all over each other, their love spilling into the air. Meg decided that she wanted to give David multiple orgasms, and she wanted to master the art of fellatio. David just wanted to serve her. He derived so much pleasure from watching her in ecstasy. They both wanted to give to the other, with no expectation of getting anything in return. That made my job easy. I had plenty of techniques to feed their hunger to please. If you already have an amazing sex life but want to take it to the next level, there are plenty of techniques here for you too!

Blow Each Other Away gives lovers

• The opportunity to dive deep (no pun intended, okay maybe a little pun) into unexplored pleasure through mastery of more than a hundred techniques.
• Knowledge on how to kiss exquisitely and give orgasmic cunnilingus, fellatio, and anilingus.
• Leading strategies for deeper connection and intimacy with your partner while giving superb oral pleasures!

I expect you to drop this book to eagerly try out the techniques. These tips are proven successful, so I guarantee youll be coming back for more.

THE PLEASURE WAVE . Ill present an innovative and original formula that empowers you to invent and explore your own techniques.

A PLEASURE WAVE IS

• A simple formula that helps couples create their own unique techniques for mind-blowing pleasure.
• An innovative way for you to develop touch skillanyone who can wiggle a finger can do it!
• A proven method for optimal arousal, leading to optimal pleasure.

CLINICALLY PROVEN TECHNIQUES . I am an avid researcher. I like to research, then practice, then teach. I believe experts must be students first and always. In my private practice, I coach men, women, and couples on the art of oral lovemaking. I teach only the techniques that I have practiced and found most effective in getting the best results over and over again.

Even more than all the effective techniques included here, this book also teaches you how to make the techniques work. I could teach hundreds of specific techniques, but for many couples it wouldnt make a difference. So what does make a difference? Having a framework to help you enjoy performing and receiving each technique. Its not actually the technique that gets the results, its how you use it.

THE JOY OF HAND-AND-MOUTH COMBOS . Oral sex isnt just about mouths on genitals. Its about hands, eyes, bodies, lips, tongues, and oh so much more. The majority of techniques in this book are focused on extraordinary combinations of body play for you and your lover to indulge in.

When it comes to oral sex, most couples just think of their mouths, and they leave one of the greatest sexual assets out of the equation completely. Using your hands in combination with your mouth is what creates really scintillating experiences that can knock your partners socks off!

FOCUS ON YOUR CONNECTION WITH YOUR PARTNER . Most books on oral lovemaking are geared toward one gender or the other. They focus on oral techniques for a woman or oral techniques for a man. This book is a comprehensive guide to oral lovemaking for couples. Your connection to your partner, physically, emotionally, and spiritually, is the foundation from which great sex is born and relationships are sustained.

ADAPTATION OF ANCIENT TECHNIQUES . One of the most unique qualities of the book is the adaptation of ancient techniques from female sexual masters, called the White Tigresses, who believed that giving oral sex could actually help them attain immortality. I studied the practices of these female masters for over a year and still dabble with them. I have creatively adapted the techniques for the modern-day woman.

The inclusion of these ancient practices and techniques helps women to understand the importance of giving oral pleasure to men. The White Tigresses claim that oral sex is their fountain of youth and secret to female health. Guys, when women read these benefits, they will be all the more excited to give.