. Kip Jacob, Better Than Prayer in Schools, Q Talk, http://qideas.org/videos/better-than-prayer-in-schools/.
. Brett and Kate McKay, The Life of Jack London as a Case Study in the Power and Perils of Thumos, Part 1: Introduction, March 25, 2013, http://www.artofmanliness.com/2013/03/25/the-life-of-jack-london-as-a-case-study-in-thumos-1-introduction/.
. David Shatz, in Joseph B. Soloveitchik, The Lonely Man of Faith (New York: Doubleday, 1965, 2006), xi.
. Matthew 27:22
. Matthew 12:18
. Timothy Keller, Generous Justice (New York: Riverhead, 2010), xi.
. Christian Women Today, Part 2 of 4, The Barna Group, August 16, 2012: https://www.barna.org/barna-update/culture/585-christian-women-today-part-2-of-4-a-look-at-womens-lifestyles-priorities-and-time-commitments#.Vp-7Pk99bAk.
. David Murrow, What Christian Women Really, Really Want, September, 25, 2013: http://www.patheos.com/blogs/churchformen/2013/09/the-1-idol-christian-women-worship/.
. Howard Snyder, Church Business or Kingdom Business? November 13, 2012, http://howardsnyder.seedbed.com/2012/11/13/church-business-or-kingdom-business/.
. Philip Zimbardo, The Demise of Guys? TED2011 Talk, March 2011, https://www.ted.com/talks/zimchallenge?language=en.
. Ray Williams, The Crisis of Fatherhood, Psychology Today , June 5, 2015, https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/wired-success/201506/the-crisis-fatherhood.
. Ibid.
. Ibid.
Chapter 1: Christian Nice Guys Arent So Nice
. Joel Kilpatrick, God, Thats Funny (Westlake Village, CA: LarkNews, 2012).
. Bill Hybels and Mark Mittelberg, Becoming a Contagious Christian (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan, 1995), 6364.
. Rick Warren, The Purpose- Driven Life (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan, 2002), 153.
. Lynne Hybels, Nice Girls Dont Change the World (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan, 2005), 2, 14.
. Revelation 21:8
. Martin Luther King Jr., Strength to Love (Minneapolis: Fortress Press, 2010), 19.
Chapter 2: Hes No Angel
. Matthew Parris, As an Atheist, I Truly Believe Africa Needs God, The Times , December 27, 2008.
. Anthony Bradley, From Boys to Men, World Magazine, July 28, 2010, http://www.worldmag.com/2010/07/from_boys_to_men.
. Stu Weber, The Heart of a Tender Warrior (Sisters, OR: Multnomah, 2002), 263.
. Frederica Mathewes-Green, God As Suffering Parent, December 22, 1999, http://frederica.com/writings/god-as-suffering-parent.html.
. Philip Yancey, The Jesus I Never Knew (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan, 1995), 23.
. Garry Wills, What Jesus Did, American Scholar , March 1, 2006, https://theamericanscholar.org/what-jesus-did.
. Shmuley Boteach, Face Your Fear (New York: St. Martins, 2004), 151.
. Eugene Peterson, Introduction to the Psalms, T HE M ESSAGE (Colorado Springs: NavPress, 2007).
. Elton Trueblood, The Humor of Christ (New York: Harper & Row, 1964).
. Greg Hartman, Plain Truth (Nov/Dec. 2004), 29, http://www.ptm.org/04PT/NovDec/laughingMessiah.htm.
. Joel Kilpatrick, God, Thats Funny (Westlake Village, CA: LarkNews, 2012).
Chapter 3: Other Earnest but Damaging Messages to Men
. Bronislaw Malinowski, Sex, Culture, and Myth (New York: Harcourt, Brace & World, 1962), 169170.
. W. Bradford Wilcox, Soft Patriarchs, New Men: How Christianity Shapes Fathers and Husbands (Chicago: University of Chicago, 2004).
. Galatians 3:28 T HE M ESSAGE
. David G. Benner, Soulful Spirituality (Grand Rapids, MI: Brazos Press, 2011), 45.
. Angela Thomas, Do You Think Im Beautiful? The Question Every Woman Asks (Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 2005).
. Stephen Prothero, American Jesus (New York: Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 2004), 58.
. Ibid, 85.
. Leon Podles, The Church Impotent (Dallas: Spence Publishing, 1999), 36.
Chapter 4: Childhood: Where Many Learn to Live Small
. Anne Lamott, Stitches (New York: Riverhead, 2013), 28.
. Paul Tillich, Love, Power, and Justice (Oxford: Oxford University Press, 1960), 25.
. Anne Lamott, Stitches , 26.
. C. S. Lewis, Mere Christianity (New York: HarperOne, 1952), 89.
Chapter 5: How Being Nice Ruins Love and Marriage