Nick Hudis - How To Last Longer In Bed: A practical new approach for men to radically transform their lovemaking

This short book teaches you exactly what you need to know and do to last longer in bed. It offers a proven step by step solution to premature ejaculation. It offers a way to be free from anxiety about ejaculation and have rock steady confidence sexually. It opens a gateway to great sex. It presents an approach that I call Ejaculatory Freedom. Ejaculatory freedom is just that, freedom, having choice about when, or if you ejaculate during love making.

This programme set out in this book is unique. You will not find anything else like it. Here is why:

It places equal emphasis on creating a positive mind-set and developing advanced physical skill. Most other approaches are either psychotherapeutic or just rehash the old stop-go method beloved by sex therapists.

It uses the same cutting edge coaching techniques I use with my 1:1 coaching clients to upgrade your mind-set and skills towards true confidence in bed.

It goes beyond curing premature ejaculation and opens the door to true ejaculatory freedom and sexual mastery by simplifying techniques handed down from ancient Tantric and Taoist sex manuals and making them relevant and usable by you as a 21st century man.

Everything in the programme has been road tested by me personally and by my clients. It works!

This book is right for you:

If you have suffered long term with serious premature ejaculation to the point where it has interfered with your fulfilment in sex and relationships.

If you have recently developed premature ejaculation and dont understand why.

If you have never lasted particularly long but would like to last longer.

If you are feeling pressured by your partner to do better in bed.

If you have a good sex life and good staying power but youd like to be even better.

OK let's get started right away. Imagine for a moment:

In two bedrooms, in two different towns two men are having sex with their partners.

For one it is a long pleasurable indulgent time which rises through several peaks of intensity until the time the couple are still, their entire bodies are tingling and alive and they feel as if they have melted into each other. Their lovemaking opens mind states that can only be described as transcendental.

For the other it is soon over, after a build-up there are a few quick thrusts and thats it. The couple knows that they love and desire each other but neither is really satisfied. He feels that he is no good as a lover, or indeed as a man. She feels there are levels of pleasure and surrender she never reaches.

Why the difference?

What is it about us men and sex? In my many years as a mentor to men and a sexuality counsellor, I have come to realise that one thing is absolutely clear. Sex matters to men. No, I mean really matters. We crave sex. We apparently think about sex every few minutes. We fantasise about sex. We do crazy and irresponsible things to get sex. We like to watch sex. Well pay for sex. Some men feel they can demand sex or even take it by force.

But, the reality is that for men, sex can be a source of unending tension. We are ruled by the three Es, the three sources of mens sexual tension.

Enough . We worry about whether we are getting enough sex. We worry about whether other men are getting more sex than us and we measure our self-worth and our value as a man by our ability to get sex. We get distracted from our life goals by the feeling of sexual frustration to the point where getting enough sex usurps our goals and becomes our life purpose.

Erection . We worry about our erections. If weve ever had a non-event and increasingly as we age we worry about getting and staying hard. There can be a constant voice of tension in our head what if I dont get hard am I hard? Mustnt lose it now Dont go limp like last time! Sometimes too we worry about getting an erection in the wrong situation like when having a massage Down boy! Down!

Ejaculation . We worry about ejaculation, or specifically, ejaculating too soon. Ive worked with men who have given up on sex and relationships altogether out of fear of coming too soon. But for many other men there is constant tension about holding back. Ooo that was a bit strong ease back steady I mustnt come. I mustnt come I oh shit Even if we last long enough to feel reasonably satisfied or to satisfy our partner, it so often feels like an effort.

Do you recognize the three Es in your life?

This book is about the last of the Es. If you are reading this book, you certainly have a desire to last longer during sex than you do currently. You are not alone: