Cornelius Agrippa - 10 hot tips for lasting longer in bed

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The Author

Dr Cornelius Agrippa is not the author's real name, as you probably guessed. He is, however, a real medical doctor, with experience of giving advice on sexual problems to many people over a long period of time.

Dr Agrippa admits that, despite his knowledge of medical theory, he has not always been a great lover. Dr Agrippa's method for overcoming premature ejaculation is the result of his own research to end unsatisfactory performance and become the kind of lover he wanted to be.

Dr Agrippa firmly believes that what worked for him will also work for you if you apply the simple method he has discovered and developed.

This method is fully explained in his book Last as long as you want in bed - five steps to overcoming premature ejaculation and regaining control (UK link) from which some of the material in this publication is taken.

(Link for US readers )

Disclaimer

Nothing in this publication should be taken to replace the advice of a qualified medical practitioner. If you think you have a medical problem contributing to sexual difficulties then you are advised to consult your doctor.

Practical sexual anatomy for lovers

This booklet will teach you key secrets about female sexual anatomy that will help you keep going until she comes.

As explained in my book, Last as long as you want in bed , your aim as a lover should be always to make her come before you do.

If you know how to stimulate her without over-stimulating yourself then you're on your way to achieving that goal and having a satisfied woman on your hands. That's what I'm going to tell you how to do.

Then, even if you aren't that tall handsome guy with too much muscle, you are definitely the man your woman will want.

Hot tip no.1: Anticipation

Don't go straight for penetration. Not straight away. Slow down.

You might even start by undressing her. Slowly.

Don't go straight for penetration even then.

She needs to be ready. Kisses and caresses come first, and plenty of them. Women take time to come to the boil.

Be sensitive to what she wants and give her plenty of it. Ask her if she would like a massage, and take your time over it. You might think this a bit boring since you're already up and ready, but it will definitely pay off. Take the time to appreciate her body and make sure she knows you are appreciating it.

Hot tip no.2: A woman's best erogenous zone is...

...her whole body.

Breathe on her neck. Breathe all over her body. Explore her with kisses, leaving out the genital area at first.

I'll tell you later a simple way of telling when she's ready.

Now read on for essential anatomical knowledge that will enable you to pleasure your woman the way she wants.

What works and what is where

I shan't confuse you with a lot of detail that you don't need to know and that your woman neither knows nor cares about either. But if you know where her specially sensitive areas are you can really turn your woman on well before you get to your own high-risk moment.

Here we'll talk about the essentials of female genital anatomy and her sensitive areas. This will help you to understand how you can stimulate her without becoming overstimulated yourself.

Remember though that all women are different, and that what works for one may not be best for another. Later on there's a hot tip for finding out what really works for your woman. Even so, there are some things that pretty well always work.

Figure 1 is self-explanatory. The woman is lying on her back facing up. I have left the clitoris, labia ('pussy lips') and vagina unshaded so that they are clear in the drawing.

Because this is a cross-sectional view it is not possible to show the extension of the clitoris on either side of the vagina, which I show in figure 3 later on.

The urethra is the exit from the bladder.

'Vulva' refers to the whole of the female external genitalia.

The 'big labia' (or in common speech 'big pussy lips,' technical term: 'labia majora') are on either side and swell up when a woman is very sexually excited.

The small labia ('small pussy lips,' 'labia minora') do not have erectile tissue in them and do not swell up during intercourse, but they do become moist.

Hot tip no.3: Don't rush

When a woman is sexually excited the lubricating glands make the vagina moist. If you go for penetration too soon then she will be dry and perhaps a little tense too and she will probably not enjoy it. Your penis will be overstimulated and may make you come too quickly. Don't go in too soon.

Hot tip no.4: How to tell when she's ready

The clitoris is her most sensitive part and it is too sensitive to touch before she's ready.

Exploring the rest of her body with your hands, you should get clues from the way she reacts about which bits she doesn't want you to touch yet.

If when you touch down there the small labia are getting moist, this is your clue that things are going well and it's probably ok for you to start stimulating her down there with your fingers.

Hot tip no. 5: You've got a tongue

I'm sure I don't need to spell this out. Even if she's still dry your tongue isn't. Common sense, isn't it? You like it, she likes it.

Oh, and talking is ok as well. If you're not sure what she wants next, think of what she might want and ask her if she wants it.

The clitoris is bigger than we think

The part we normally think of as the clitoris is a small pea-size nubbin of tissue that corresponds to the head of the penis in the male. It is mostly covered by skin folds connected to the small labia.

However there is more to the clitoris than we can see. The clitoris also extends up onto the front of the pubic bone then downwards again into the upper part of the vagina and divides on either side of the the small labia and into the sides of the vagina.

It is now known that the clitoris has a big extension inside the vaginal walls, and that it is the clitoris, including its sensitive tissue hidden inside the vaginal walls, which is a woman's most sensitive area during sex.

The idea put about by psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud that there are two kinds of female orgasm - clitoral and vaginal - is now in doubt, because stimulating the vagina is essentially stimulating the clitoral tissue that is part of the vaginal wall.

I have indicated this complex anatomy in simplified form in figure 3. All the heavily-shaded area is particularly sensitive. The important point to remember is that it is the part of the vulva and vagina nearest the surface that is the most sensitive. Deeper into the vagina there are relatively fewer nerve endings.