David Wygant - Naked!: How to Find the Perfect Partner by Revealing Your True Self

Praise for Naked!

If you want to find your perfect partner the natural and
easy way, David Wygant is the man who knows how!

Eddie Yu, author of Speedlights & Elephants:
Winning the Online Business Game

As a dating coach and participating member
of the relationship club, David Wygant strips away
all the fantasy bulls$%t and clearly delivers the naked
truth about relationships. Naked! is a great read.
Ridiculously, hilariously, and refreshingly real!

Marni Kinrys, The Wing Girl Method

ALSO BY DAVID WYGANT

Books

Always Talk to Strangers:3 Simple Steps to Finding the
Love of Your Life (available from all major booksellers)

The Fearless Code:Become a Natural with Women and
Unmask the Authentic You (e-book)

Guys Guide to Texting (e-book and audio program)

CD/DVD Programs for Men

The Art of Closing:How to Be a Great Dater (audio program)

Become a Master Communicator (audio and DVD program)

Become Her Sexual Fantasy:
Unlock Her Secret Sexual Code (audio program)

Mens Mastery Series:
The Complete Guide to Meeting Women (audio program)

No Excuses (audio program)

Own the Room:How to Create Success in All
Aspects of Your Life (audio program)

Secrets of Online Dating (DVD program)

The Truth Behind What Women Desire in a Man

Undercover Approaches Women Crave:How Women
Really Want Men to Approach Them (audio program)

CD/DVD Programs for Women

The Art of Attracting Men:The Inside Truth to the
Way a Mans Mind Works (audio program)

No Excuses (audio program)

Womens Mastery Series (audio program)

All of the above are available at www.davidwygant.com.

Copyright 2012 by David Wygant

Published and distributed in the United States by: Hay House, Inc.: www.hayhouse.com Published and distributed in Australia by: Hay House Australia Pty. Ltd.: www.hayhouse.com.au Published and distributed in the United Kingdom by: Hay House UK, Ltd.: www.hayhouse.co.uk Published and distributed in the Republic of South Africa by: Hay House SA (Pty), Ltd.: www.hayhouse.co.za Distributed in Canada by: Raincoast: www.raincoast.com Published in India by: Hay House Publishers India: www.hayhouse.co.in

Editorial supervision: Jill Kramer Project editor: Patrick Gabrysiak
Cover design: Amy Grigoriou Interior design: Riann Bender

All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced by any mechanical, photographic, or electronic process, or in the form of a phonographic recording; nor may it be stored in a retrieval system, transmitted, or otherwise be copied for public or private useother than for fair use as brief quotations embodied in articles and reviewswithout prior written permission of the publisher.

The author of this book does not dispense medical advice or prescribe the use of any technique as a form of treatment for physical, emotional, or medical problems without the advice of a physician, either directly or indirectly. The intent of the author is only to offer information of a general nature to help you in your quest for emotional and spiritual well-being. In the event you use any of the information in this book for yourself, which is your constitutional right, the author and the publisher assume no responsibility for your actions.

Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data

Wygant, David.

Naked! : how to find the perfect partner by revealing your true self
/ David Wygant.

p. cm.

ISBN 978-1-4019-3397-5 (tradepaper : alk. paper) ISBN 978-1-4019
3398-2 1. Dating (Social customs) 2. Mate selection. 3. Man-woman
relationshipsUnited States. 4. Self-confidence. I. Title.

HQ801.W94 2012

646.77dc23

2011026942

ISBN: 978-1-4019-3397-5

Digital ISBN: 978-1-4019-3398-2

15 14 13 12 4 3 2 1

1st edition, January 2012

Printed in the United States of America

Thanks to all of my clients for allowing me to
become a part of their lives. The work we do
together has taught me more about life than
I could ever learn by myself.

Show me a dreamer who only dreams,
and Ill show you somebody who never achieves.
Show me a dreamer who not only dreams,
but applies himself every single day,
and Ill show you some of the most successful people in the world.
Doesnt matter if its dating.
Doesnt matter if its work.
Dreams alone wont get you anything but frustrated.

It may seem like an odd way to start a book, but here we go: Thank you.

Right about now youre probably asking yourself, Thank you for what?

Thank you for taking this very powerful step in order to reveal your true self and find the perfect partner. If youve been in the dating game for any amount of time at all, you know that most people put up walls that keep them from revealing their true selves to others. This book is all about breaking down those walls and cutting through the bullshit that gets in the way of building meaningful, long-term relationships.

Starting right now.

For more than 20 years, Ive been earning the trust of men and women who are looking to transform their love lives. I have coached thousands of individuals on how to become more attractive to the opposite sexin person and via my website, www.davidwygant.com. I write a weekly column for AskMen.com, Im the head relationship writer for TangoWire (www.tangowire.com), and I post a blog several times a week on The Huffington Post. Ive also made thousands of appearances in the broadcast, print, and online media, including USA Today, MSNBC, Playboy TV, ABC News, Maxim, The New York Times, Fox News, Cosmopolitan, Inside Edition, Mens Health, Marie Claire, MTV, The Early Show, and many more.

The story of how I became a dating coach is quite interesting. About 15 or 16 years ago, a friend and I were conducting a seminar together. It was about how to make money and how to market yourself. My friend kept telling me, Do what you love, and the money will follow.

Okay, I said. That sounds great. But how does that bit of cosmic wisdom really work?

He replied, If you do what you love, you may not make money right away. But youll stay true to who you are and be passionate about everything you do. And, like magic, youll start getting clients. People are going to want to do business with you, because passion is contagious and everyone wants to feel it.

I thought about it, and I realized he was right. So I decided to become a dating coach. In the beginning, it was a little rocky; after all, you cant become something new overnight. It was an uphill battle for the first couple of years, but I stuck with it, and everything has worked out in a big way. There are those individuals in life who are fortunate to be able to do what they love, and I am lucky to be one of them. I truly believe that if you pursue your desires, the money will follow. And this is just what I teach all my clients: if you love and respect yourself, then the perfect partner will follow.

I spent my 20s and much of my 30s chasing money and women. I was very good at both. There was just one problem with this: I wasnt satisfied in my relationships. Every woman I decided to date was a carbon copy of the last oneand the last one wasnt very good. Why? Because I didnt learn the lesson the very first time and had to reconnect with the exact same person in a different body over and over again until I finally figured it out.