HOW JOEL CURE
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PREMATURE EJACULATION
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DEDICATION
This book is dedicated to all men facing the challenge of premature ejaculation.
WHAT IS PREMATURE EJACULATION
Premature ejaculation (PE), also known as rapid ejaculation, rapid or early ejaculation i s the most common sexual disorder in men, affecting 25%-40% of men. It is characterized by a lack of voluntary control over ejaculation.
WHEN CAN IT BE SAID THAT ONE HAVE PREMATURE EJACULATION.
I. When a man ejaculate prior to penetration.
II. When a man ejaculate before his spouse or partner reach orgasm
III. When a man ejaculate within two minutes during intercourse or when a man ejaculate before his partner would want it.
CLASSIFICATION OF PREMATURE EJACULATION
Premature ejaculation can be classified into two:
. Primary ejaculation : This type of ejaculation is normally associated with men that have erectile problem other causes includes sexual anxiety, depression, stress and fear. The man involved , ejaculates before penetration or within one or two minutes a fter penetration. This can be so frustrating.
. Secondary or acquired ejaculation : This type of ejaculation is same with the primary type , only that the man in this case has once enjoye d a healthy sexual relationship before he starts experiencing the PE .
MYTHS ABOUT PREMATURE EJACULATION
I. Premature ejaculation is a disease : Though its seemed as one but is not. Is normally cause by psychological response to situations and hormonal disorder .
II. Condoms are the solution to premature ejaculation : Condom can act by desensitizing the mans penis and delay ejaculation but is not the way out of it.
III. Pills, creams, penile ring , herbs, and medication can cure premature ejaculation permanently : They can help you delay ejaculation by desensitizing the penis but 100% cure is not guaranteed ! PE is a natural thing thats has to be fix naturally. Most of the companies that produce these so called cure remedies are just out to drain you wallets.
IV. Cause by poor mastur bation habit : Some of my clients that masturbate often, still last up to 10- 30 minutes , depends on how you go about it
V. Just because you last for only 2 minutes in bed, you arent a good lover : Is not about how long you last but how long it takes you to satisfy your partner. If you make your partner to reach orgasm within 2 minutes after penetration, you are a go o d lover. Some men satisfy their partner through oral sex when you do this, you can t be said to be a bad lover.
VI. Distractions techniques and working with your partner can make you last longer : Though this works for some men , its not the way out. When you do this you are not enjoying th e basic pleasure that comes with the act . C uring it requires you to work with your partner: You can practice ejaculatory control wit h or without involving your partner.
VII. It has no permanent cure: It has a permanent cure that can only be obtained by natural means only and not by some jazz! That you see on different ads.
VIII. Is a very serious problem : Is not , is curable.
IX. One can automatically control h is ejaculation during sex : You cannot automatically control your ejaculation during sex, the more you try i t , the more frustrated you ll become .
X. It affects you r sex life only : when you allo w it to continue without searching for the cure, soon er or later itll also affec ts your partner and other aspect of your life.
XI. I dont need to see a doctor : When it happens so frequently, it becomes necessary to consult a medical practitioner.
XII. Alcohols can cure premature ejaculation : It cannot cure it. It can only help you temporary to last longer.
XIII. premature ejaculations is a mind set problem : Research has it that i t s cause d by low level of serotonin, a natural substance that is produced by nerves may be the possible cause
CAUSES OF PREMATURE EJACULATION
Premature ejaculation c an be cause by
a. Psychological response : this h a s been considered to be the major cause of premature ejaculation by experts. And it can be attributed to personal response to life issues.
b. Erectile dysfunction : A man that has erectile dysfunction will always w ant t o finish quick during sex, thus making him to rush the act quickly because of the fear of losing the erecti on that took him time to gain.
c. Family background : T his happen mostly to men that grew up in a family where sex is seen as negative and dirty act. So, at a young age, the boy grow s up with the wrong orientation about sex . S o In mo st cases , t he boy will give in to frequent masturbation , in the wrong way and this in future , will affects is s exual performance because he will see himself coming to o quickly during sex.
d. Religions believe : Men that are very religious that engages in sex before marriage are not always comfortable during sex .O nce they see them self having sex, they feel guilty, once this happens, fear will set in before they know it, they see them self ejaculating before time .
e. Negative reaction from spouse : Confidence and relaxation play a very vital role during sexual intercourse. And when a man loses this d ue to negative reaction s from his partner, poor performance during sex is band to happen, the man wont been able to control his ejaculation and premature ejaculation , will now becomes a challenge for him to tackle .
f. Over expectation : Normally men that watch porno , after watching, will w a nt to emulate the long duration of sex scene as seen in the porn movie . And they forget that is just a movie. Most things in porno movies, is just for entertainment purpose. When they fail to last long as the porno star, frustration, depression, anxiety, worries will preoccupy their mind, causing them to experience premature ejaculation.
g. Physical response: this response is not cause by deficiency or weakness but is just the way your body system is "wired
h. Habitual response : Is a quick sexual habit formed over time. That makes one to reach orgasm fast. Which is normally difficult to correct without help?
WAYS TO CURE PREMATURAL EJACULATION
I just want to use thi s opportunity to thank Andrew D. for giving me my loss conf idence and hope back in my life that was once lost. I and Andrew D. had been a childhood friend s , but I never discussed my sexual problems wit h him because I just felt we were too close for him to know everything about my sexual life. The question is , how long I can really hide this sexual challenge from him remains a question I could not just answer at that time.
MY SEXUAL ORDEAL
My first relationship was at the age of eighteen. I saw this beautiful girl in my neighbourhood I woo her after some time she accept to be my girlfriend. The first day she visited me, I was so happy I could not just hold back my joy and happiness.
BUT SOMET HING HAPPENED
As we were together in my room, talking and having drink together, I notice that she came closer toward me and sat on my lap at that point my who le body was on fire before I kne w what was happening , we were both on the floor nude when I see her nude body, I felt my penis ha rd and straight, then we engaged our body; I was sucking her hard nipples and she took hold of my penis at that point, I could not control myself any longer and I ejaculated all over the floor. Immediately, she stopped caressing me with an annoying mood and ask me why all these? I told her it was my first time. She dressed up stayed few minute and left.
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