Caffyn Jesse - Orgasmic Mastery for Men: End Premature Ejaculation Forever with 15 Days of Pleasure

Orgasmic Mastery for Men

End Premature Ejaculation Forever with 15 Days of Pleasure

by Caffyn Jesse

Copyright 2013 Caffyn Jesse

www.erospirit.ca

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What if you could end premature ejaculation forever, and learn to make love for hours? What if you could become an intensely passionate, desirable man - a stud with stamina - by learning to feel more pleasure?

The problem of premature ejaculation is extremely common and is suffered by most men at some point in their lives. It can lead to low self-esteem and relationship problems.

Traditional treatments for premature ejaculation include desensitizing creams, distracting thoughts, pills that muffle sexual feeling, and techniques that block ejaculation. These treatments are not only ineffective - they actually cause harm. I see many men who have suffered for years with premature ejaculation. After using these techniques as a fix, they come to see me because they are numb inside, turned off sex, suffering from erectile dysfunction and experiencing inhibited ejaculation. There is a simple, effective way to end all this suffering and heartache. And the best news is - the solution is learning to enjoy more pleasure! When men approach the maximum sexual charge their bodies can comfortably deal with, they generally release it through ejaculation. By training your body to enjoy more pleasure, you acquire Orgasmic Mastery. This learning takes only a few hours of conscious commitment. Once the basic principles are understood, new knowledge can unfold through the joyful practice of a lifetime.

We all unconsciously place limits on how intense sexual energy can be, limiting the potential of our sexual experiences. I believe that without Orgasmic Mastery training, all of men's ejaculations will be premature, in that they limit access to more profound pleasure. Orgasmic Mastery techniques allow you to welcome the intensity and let it build, so that you can experience more and more pleasure.

The first thing we need to do is learn to savor prolonged arousal in our self-pleasuring practices. We get used to masturbating in habitual, efficient ways. By employing more creative touch techniques, and giving mindful attention to body sensation, you can learn to feel your body from the inside, and to enjoy each stage of arousal. You can even learn to orgasm without ejaculating!

The second path to gaining Orgasmic Mastery is teaching your body to hold a high erotic charge. Using breath and visualization, we can shift the focus from the genitals and circulate arousal through the whole body. You will soon be enjoying an erection in every cell!

The next challenge is taking Orgasmic Mastery into partner play. Partner sex is exciting and unpredictable. There is enormous pressure on men to "get it up" and maintain an erection. Men not only suffer shame and humiliation when they ejaculate unintentionally, they also feel embarrassment and confusion when they don't get hard or experience inhibited ejaculation. Teaching your body to generate and circulate elevated levels of erotic energy makes it easier to get and maintain a reliable erection. And we also need to learn techniques for erotic engagement that take the pressure off erection and ejaculation. Orgasmic Mastery practice involves learning to savor the pleasures of a soft cock, and explore post-ejaculatory possibilities. There are literally thousands of ways to be sexual, and only one of them depends on having a hard penis. Learning many ways to please a partner while you enjoy your own body, you can learn to savor and share a much wider range of erotic response.

There are 15 exercises described here- 5 in each area. You can do the exercises sequentially or randomly. You can do a different one each day, or find an exercise you especially enjoy and do it every day. I encourage you to have a look at the whole program, and approach it in a way that can be deeply integrated with your life. Each exercise should be a pleasure. 15 days of these practices are guaranteed to be transformative. And I know you won't want to stop using these techniques just because "the problem" is fixed. Your Orgasmic Mastery will build and build through ongoing, joyful practice.

Use these five innovative, exciting, self-pleasuring practices to master the art of savoring prolonged arousal. Welcome high and higher levels of erotic energy into your body and your life. You can learn to feel your body from the inside, enjoy each stage of arousal, and even orgasm without ejaculating!

Many people feel profound discomfort with sexual energy - a discomfort that is both cultural and physical. Sexual energy is experienced as tension we need to discharge or repress. These techniques allow you to welcome the intensity and allow it to build so that you can experience more and more pleasure.

One key to curing unintentional ejaculation is to build up the sexual energy in our bodies in a relaxed state. This enables much more energy and ecstatic pleasure to flow all though our whole bodies. Orgasmic states can arise effortlessly even as ejaculation becomes more and more controllable.

Every time you use the washroom, spend a few moments clearing your mind. One useful approach to mind-clearing is the "aquarium technique." Imagine the mind as an aquarium, with each of our cares and commitments assigned to a specific fish. Encourage each fish to move out of the frame, until the mind becomes clear water.

When you mind feels clear, breathe deeply into your pelvic floor, and use your hands to stimulate your genitals to a point short of ejaculation. Take a few seconds or a few minutes, but stop short of ejaculation. Just enjoy your arousal and notice that you can enjoy arousal without needing to "climax."

If you do this several times a day, every day, you may begin to notice your erotic energy building. Sexual energy may begin to inform your everyday lifeworld, in joyful and surprising ways.

This video will guide you in recognizing various levels of arousal and exploring them in your self-pleasuring practice. Numbers are assigned to different arousal levels to help you describe your sexual response, not to rate it. If you only ever get to 2-3, that is fine, if you go immediately to 11, that is fine too.

Link to video: https://vimeo.com/erospirit/review/81791989/04d63a7cb2

Table describing arousal levels:

Once you are used to tracking your arousal level, try peaking. Caress yourself until you come to a level 3, then stop caressing and feel your arousal drops back down. Caress yourself again until you feel you are at a level 4, stop the caress and allow your arousal to drop back down. Continue through all the levels if you can.

Squeeze your pelvic floor muscles and "Kegel" to pump erotic energy through your body and to stop ejaculation. Savor the pleasure of orgasmic feelings without ejaculation.